Original Reddit post

I am a woman (39 F) and while I am now in a very happy relationship under all angles I’ve been in the past with men who rejected me sexually on the regular. I’m talking about going 2-3 weeks without intimacy regularly, and it only really happened when they initiated it. If I did, it was rejected. Some of them were incredibly unhealthy and toxic people, but I have known other women facing the same issue. I understand low libido can play a factor, or even stress during specific times of life, depression or being on certain medications. Is there anything else that would cause you to refuse intimacy with your partner on a regular basis, other than the obvious? Any turn offs that sour the sexual aspect of a relationship otherwise healthy? submitted by /u/violalovegood

Originally posted by u/violalovegood on r/AskMen