So me and my friend play video games quite often. If it was up to us we would play everyday. Now she is in a relationship. But our friendship is mainly online. One day we played one round and I noticed something odd whenever we talk I’m always the one asking questions. I always ask how she is what she is doing and I always add follow up questions. But she rarely asks me anything heck she doesn’t even ask me things back. Following the round we were close to victory basically in a 2 vs 2 situation. She made a mistake and I was then in the middle of gunfire getting one enemy down. While I gave her comms on how to take the other down. I heard her casually talking to her bf no longer paying any attention to what I even have to say. Now I do understand that some people can’t multitask things I understand that it tends to get difficult if more people start talking to you. But she didn’t listen and then just complained about something I did. That’s when I got pissed. I felt frustrated because nothing I said went anywhere. Then as we died she realized that it’s her fault that we lost and apologized for it. I don’t mind losing it’s just a game if we lose that’s just what it is. But what I do mind is disrespect. I was really angry at that and just said let’s play something else I‘m done playing this game. I wanted to get in a good mood but while we played she tried to uplift my mood. For a minute and then everything went back to normal. She didn’t care for what I had to say. Didn’t ask me things back etc. And then while we were in a lobby chilling she didn’t talk to me because she wanted to handle her vacation stuff. Which we agreed to play after she was done with that. I told her that if she still had things to plan we could just play another time. She said that it’s fine etc. and guess what she still continued with everything. As we went offline I told her that we will hear from each other some other day. She was quite for a second and asked why not tomorrow. I replied that I wasn’t sure wether she had time or not. Truth to be told I just felt disrespected. I kinda lost all interest playing video games with her whatsoever. Is it okay to feel this way? Maybe you have some perspective for me which I didn’t consider yet. submitted by /u/New_Cobbler_9458
Originally posted by u/New_Cobbler_9458 on r/AskMen
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