I wasted my teens not talking to any girls thinking that “whats mine will come find me” until i realised that it wont happen unless I take some action towards it. So I did, in the past 2-3 years I have tried asking out around 30 girls so far (lost count tbh) and got rejected by all of them. I don’t hit in girls randomly, I usually wait for eye contact and other subtle green lights to approach someone. About me: Im in my early 20s, good looking (Not flawless but ive been told by others that im handsome and YES that is excluding my mom and grandma), I work, recently graduated uni, hit the gym, have a car, dress nicely etc. Here is what I haven’t tried doing: -Use dating apps Here is what i have tried: -Asking someone to tell X that im interested in them
- Cold approach
- Dming on instagram
- Getting to know them first, then asking them out
- Being straight up flirtatious So basically I have tried every method out there and usually it results in a straight ghost or ghost after 2-3 messages. I got friend-zoned twice and was told “Eww” once. It gets demoralising and I dont know how to deal with it. Has anyone else experienced this many rejections? Am i too nice for girls? Thats what an old lady keeps saying to me submitted by /u/WakeUpDead_
Originally posted by u/WakeUpDead_ on r/AskMen
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