My husband has been in a sexual drive decline. He’s want for sex has gradually become less. This in itself is something that really saddens me because sex makes me feel close to him, makes our relationship more intimate. But of course I can’t and won’t force him to have sex with me. So I’ve tried telling him that I would appreciate other sexual attention. Maybe fingering or going down. Problem is: he’s not very good at it. And the bigger problem is: he’s doesn’t respond well to me insinuating that I would like to teach him how I like it, or that we should practice more (I tell him this in a playful way with a naughty wink). He’s this stereotypical burly man, who was never taught how to communicate, and gets uncomfortable when I try to talk to him about “feelings” or let alone sex. You could kinda compare his character with Red from That seventies show. But he’s a lot hotter 😁 How would you men, advise me to go about getting my Red-like husband to make me cum using his fingers or tongue? submitted by /u/Naomi_is_with_you
Originally posted by u/Naomi_is_with_you on r/AskMen