I’m trying to figure out who to choose to be my groomsmen. I’ve already asked 5 guys, and am considering 2 others. I like these two other guys, the main thing that’s conflicting me is logistics. We want to pay for an airbnb for everyone in the wedding party to stay in. With the extra 2 men and their SO’s, we wouldn’t be able to fit everyone in the airbnb we want. We also wouldn’t be able to fit everyone at the main dinner table. Both of these guys I am actually pretty close with, I just don’t see often due to confliting work schedules with one, and the other doesn’t live locally anymore. I’d like them to be in the wedding party, but the logistics are making me question if they should or if they should just be regular wedding guests. Another main thing is I don’t want anyone to feel left out. Like imagine you’re in the wedding party and basically everyone in the wedding party gets to stay at this air bnb except you. Just for some extra context my fiancée is only having 3 bridesmaids. Would love to hear any anecdotes, opinions, or advice. Thanks in advance! Edit: Also want to add that I am only inviting 7 guy friends to my wedding. Since I’m only having 7 guy friends there, I figured why not have them all be my groomsmen? submitted by /u/New_Investigator197
Originally posted by u/New_Investigator197 on r/AskMen