My Fiance has lost all will to have sex with me but still promises she loves me. I (25M) have been with my fiance (26F) for 7 years, dating for 6 and engaged for a year. When we started dating we had sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once. She was also very reactive to my needs and vice versa. She would also be the one initiating many times and that made me feel extremely wanted. We do love each other immensely but the last 3 years in the bedroom has really frustrated me and she doesn’t see it as anything wrong. We went from having sex multiples times a day to not even once a month. She suggested it was due to her going through a rough period when she was debating to continue work or puruse further education. i tried to be fully supportive in her decision and we had to stay away as she had to move to another town for studies for a year. We met maybe once a month and at that point she had no desire to sleep woth me. I always tried to make her comfortable, many times even cooking her favorite meals, watching her favourite movies etc. hoping that maybe this improce her mood overall and we’d have sex at some point. But nothing seemed to work. When she was done with college she moved in back with her family. We still had sex every so often when she’d visit me but everything changed after we got engaged. She said she didn’t want me to lige far from her and I agreed to move in with her family temporarily until we find a house. This was now 6 months ago and we had sex twice in that time. Both times when we were on holiday away. She told me she wouldn’t appreciate having sex under her families roof, and that also means any kind of masturbation. I am now feeinf extremely frustrated and confused as to ehat follows, we have been viewing houses for the past 3 months, we have viewed around 18 or so and each time when I liked one shes had an issue and doesn’t want to continue negotiating after. Shes now asked to wait until summer to resume the viewing and I am honestly not sure I can wait. Shes stopped any and all kind of sexual affection towards me, and to and I do not know if she even wants me anymore. The only times shes taken the initiative is when shes been extremely drunk over the past 3 years submitted by /u/Thin-Pirate-174
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