I don’t want to make my life about chasing sex or chasing women. My question is more about this: what should a man actually build in his life so that attraction, desire, and sexual interest happen more naturally? Not generic answers like “confidence” or “money.” I mean the deeper things that made women see you as a man they could feel real chemistry with. Was it fitness, social skills, emotional control, body language, style, purpose, boundaries, humour, calmness, sexual energy, experience, or something else? For men who went from being ignored or needy to being genuinely desired, what changed in your life and behaviour? What did you stop doing, and what did you start focusing on? submitted by /u/HeavyEbb5690
Originally posted by u/HeavyEbb5690 on r/AskMen