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Men who were left by an ex and used it as fuel to become better — fitter, richer, more disciplined, more confident, and eventually dating someone better — what was the real process? Did your ex ever notice or come back around? And more importantly, did the comeback actually feel satisfying, or was the real win reaching a point where you no longer cared what she thought? What changed you the most? submitted by /u/HeavyEbb5690

Originally posted by u/HeavyEbb5690 on r/AskMen