Original Reddit post

I am 22M, straight, college student, haven’t talked much to women, haven’t had any relationship till date. Don’t have any female good friends. I don’t know how to talk to women. I don’t know how to approach them. Rather, I ignore them as if I have someone that I am very committed to. Every single guy meme, It’s me. I don’t know what to do but this feeling, call it desperstion or yearning is increasing day by day. I really want to talk to a lot of people, men, women and anyone that is genuine and no bs. It’s been a lot of time since I jave joined my college. And I still can’t believe that I am so ignorant and emotionally unavailable to women. I mean, there are potential mates in my college that could be, lord knows, my furture partner. But I just threw away all that in vain. I believe I am very imperfect and need a lot to change. But experiencing the present scenario, I could easily be with a 8/10 or maybe by God’s grace 9/10 baddie. But here I am, alone and with my other alone peer group. At 22, I feel I am very late. I lack confidence, motivation and high sense of humour. Help me get through this phase. I want to get out of it either being a better version of myself or with a mate. submitted by /u/MeatAlternative3400

Originally posted by u/MeatAlternative3400 on r/AskMen