Throwaway due to the vulnerability… 34M All I’ll say is that I’m currently drinking at the airport, ready to board a flight after failing, at pretty much everything the last 2 years. I’ll save the details but 2 years ago I was in the peak of my life. Fit, healthy, happy, top 25% income, one of the best, let’s say comfortably top 5% at what I do in my job in my country (extremely niche job so I don’t care if anyone doesn’t believe me or not) a comfortable chunk of savings and most importantly, a strong 8 year relationship. My partner and I then decided to relocate country and 2 years pass. (In hindsight, why I left my home country which is one of the richest countries per capita in the world when things were going perfect, I’ll never know) Fast forward to today. I’m sitting in the airport drinking. Lost a massive chunk of money from visa restrictions trying to find a job, the one I did get was so far below my salary back home it’s embarrassing. Ended up getting fired because of how unhappy I was despite overperforming and my suggestions of change were seen as . Savings are almost depleted aside from a decent chunk of stock I have which amount to about €20k along with an emergency account of around €10k. My partner and I have parted ways after 10 years also. My fitness is gone and my happiness, motivation, ego, confidence and self esteem are at an all time low. Single. Jobless. Financially crippled (comparing to two years ago). Unhappy. Fatter. Less Drive. Self Esteem evaporated over the last 24 months. ROCK BOTTOM I’m at rock bottom men, what can I do? submitted by /u/TinkyWinkyinHelsinki
Originally posted by u/TinkyWinkyinHelsinki on r/AskMen
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