I found questions asked regarding when did you know whether you wanted them or not, but that is not really what Im curious about. Im rather interested when was a moment when you first started exploring your psyche for “do I ever want to have kids?”, even if at that moment your answer was “hell, I got time, i dont really know yet, lets revisit this at a later point in life”. And what was the catalyst - a good job, your own home, a certain age, looking at friends that are fathers, a heart to heart with someone, a woman you fell in love with that you thought “eyy I think I want her to be my kids’ mother”, etc etc. Or, if you havent yet, how old are you? Edit: and just to preface, referring to one of the sub rules, I am communicating with my man about it, I always have, this is not about any “is he even thinking about it yet??” kinda thing, because I know what he thinks about it 😁😁 I am merely curious for some more male experiences, but dont really have male friends I could ask submitted by /u/ulykke
Originally posted by u/ulykke on r/AskMen