When should one learn to really bother confronting someone about something or even perhaps fighting? With reason and not just ego involved. For context, a friend of a gf that I never really liked, recently confessed feelings to her out of nowhere. All be it, it was handled and she blocked him. However it really bothered me and I know it wasn’t her fault, I was just pissed as I found it disrespectful towards our relationship. With this being said, I have an event this Sunday with friends and he happens to be an acquaintance of said friends, so I’m gonna end up seeing him and being around him. I was thinking emotionally and was very adamant on confronting him and why not, but then I realized I think was being insecure and letting my ego get to me. I then thought, what’s the point. I already don’t like the guy and I’d be creating more drama, I’m gonna go to the event and just go on about my day, not really bothering to acknowledge him and that was that. Now this brings my question in when should a ma really bother picking a battle? submitted by /u/buniax
Originally posted by u/buniax on r/AskMen
