Original Reddit post

Hiya, This might be like an obvious question but I’m genuinely curious: would having a partner wear lingerie each time you got together get boring? My ex was a porn addict and we had a dead bedroom for years which really crushed my confidence. I’m with a wonderful man now and we’re enjoying exploring our freaky sides, but we don’t get to see each other often due to work (once a week maximum) so I like to make a big deal and dress up, but I was thinking - it’s the same thing each time; bra, pants, perhaps stockings or garters, or a chemise. Would you start to feel bored by that? I know it’s often said that men are more visual than women. I’m not asking for relationship advice, more about what men think on this subject? Is it more a “for special” thing for you or would different colours and fabrics be enough to keep it interesting? submitted by /u/CutSea5865

Originally posted by u/CutSea5865 on r/AskMen