Like genuinely, do people still fall for each other without already knowing they’re interested? I mean that thing where you slowly start getting flustered around someone without even understanding why. You become weirdly shy around them, start caring about their feelings, notice little things about them, look forward to talking to them… and then one day you realize you actually have feelings for this person. Not when you already know you like someone and then intentionally start flirting with them, acting shy, caring more, etc. I mean when it just happens naturally. Neither person is really trying to make anything happen. I’ve always wondered if I’ll ever meet a guy like that. Like maybe he’d like me but be way too anxious to actually tell me, so we’d just slowly get to know each other first. Become friends. Get comfortable. And somewhere along the way it turns into something more. The awkwardness, the random nervousness, the glances, both of us pretending we’re completely normal when we’re obviously not 😭 And then eventually he finally gets the courage to confess and I find out he’s liked me this whole time and we just start laughing because all that anxiety was for NOTHING and we both felt the same way. Idk why but that kind of love feels so much more genuine to me. Like neither of us went into it thinking “I want this person.” It just happened. Maybe I’m romanticizing the hell out of it, but I really wonder if people actually experience love like this anymore and I want to experience it toooo omg submitted by /u/sanskriti4i
Originally posted by u/sanskriti4i on r/AskMen