- Only about a handful (if that) of women asked me about if I had an STI. And if they did, it was usually after we had unprotected sex
- Older women who were attractive probably only wanted me because they low key want to have children and they’re running out of time hence why dating and sleeping with them was easier.
- Some women are conscious about scaring off men because of their fancy job and house or whatever accomplishment. I think that’s probably why a lot are single and just have hook ups here and there. I personally think this is one of the reasons why women have higher body counts these days.
- Some women want traditional men when they themselves aren’t traditional.
- Some women are ignorant of the struggles of guys and dating. Seem to think the average guy gets laid easily with little to no effort. They assume this because they probably regularly pursue the “top 1%” men who get are obviously overwhelmed with options.
- Some women take rejection atrociously bad. Regardless of how patient calm and respectful you are you’ll be the villain in her book. - This applies to women who are genuinely extremely attractive and in my opinion not used to being rejected.
- Some women are of course very clingy after sex, some are actually pretty cool and will see themselves out. If we’re on good terms it’s usually no effort to bring them back again.
- A lot of women gave it up to me within the 1st and 3rd date. If a woman did come over to mine on the first date she’d typically say “I don’t normally do this”.
- I’m an introvert, I’m not charismatic in anyway shape or form. While I’ve been told I’m tall and good looking I’m hardly a supermodel tbh. I think so long as you show at least some level of confidence and interest it shouldn’t be hard to take a girl back.
- Showing limited interest is probably another reason why I got laid a lot. It’s definitely true that girls like a bit of mystery. I honestly can’t remember the last time I was desperate for a girls attention.
- I have a good job in the city but some of the girls I’ve dated have been with blue collar workers despite themselves being in extremely professional roles. I think if a guy is really good looking they won’t care much about your job and at the very least want to hook up with you.
- Loads of women have come off contraception for some reason. And still want unprotective sex 🤣. Wasn’t the case before but over the years this has changed.
- Most women HATE condoms
- A lot of women are rushing into marriage. From my experience 1-2 years after things fizzled out with me they were engaged.
- A lot of women have been demanding princess treatment in their dating profiles. This wasn’t the case a few years ago. Needless to say it’s a massive turn off.
- More and more women are using the “are we dating the same guy groups”. Be wary as a lot of women may spread lies about you if the break up was sour. Date with caution.
- Some women are ignorant of the struggles of guys and dating. They think men have it easy on dating apps despite stats proving that men in general have it significantly harder. I once told a girl that on a good week I’d get maybe 5 likes on hinge and she was shocked. I personally think if a woman assumes guys get loads of girls with no effort that they routinely go for the players.
- Sleeping with a lot of women has been fun but it’s also VERY empty. You’re far better off having sex with someone you genuinely like or when you’re in a long term relationship.
- I know a few other guys who’ve slept with hundreds of girls or have been serial womanisers and they honestly appear to have some problems. While they’re clearly successful somethings missing.
- In my case I was insecure about having a low body count because my friends looked down on me because of it when I was a teenager. All the “studs” were getting girls so I did the same to the point where I was the best womaniser in the group. But in the end it’s pretty empty over a prolonged period of time and it’s honestly a little exhausting (and expensive). Overtime I didn’t care much about my body count anymore and ironically started having sex way more the less I cared.
- I think being the kind of guy who’s able to effortlessly get laid at will is far better than the guy who’s actively seeking it as it can be a form of insecurity like in my case. I’m different now that I’m in my mid 30s and genuinely just want a lovely girl to settle down with. Some of the points may be obvious but regardless I thought I’d just share my perspective. submitted by /u/Carlitoyoung
Originally posted by u/Carlitoyoung on r/AskMen
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