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Alrighty, so most girls can go to the club with either a group or one other female friend and feel comfortable dancing, flirting, or doing whatever they feel like without feeling out of place. They often have the freedom to express themselves, move to the music, and enjoy the environment openly. This ease comes from social norms and expectations that encourage women to be more expressive and relaxed in such settings. On the other hand, if a group of guys go to the club and don’t have a reserved table or section, most of them tend to just stand around, often in a circle or scattered spots, and yell into each other’s ears just to communicate. The loud music and crowded atmosphere make conversation difficult, so they resort to shouting or waving over each other. Many guys might feel less comfortable dancing in such settings due to social expectations around masculinity, fear of looking awkward, or simply not knowing how to dance confidently in front of others. What can a group of guys do that won’t make it look weird if they are dancing around each other, would we need to have girls in our group inorder to have fun? submitted by /u/Icy_Tear_4043

Originally posted by u/Icy_Tear_4043 on r/AskMen