I love my best friend so much, but one thing is that she gets kind of insecure about me having relationships and it makes me feel like crap about myself. She keeps bringing up how before I started dating him, I was trying to set her up with him and i “forced her” to DM him. (it’s true I suggested it slightly, but she wasn’t really into him and gave up after a week) She tried to DM him and he didn’t respond and that was that. About two months later when I was single, I asked my best friend if it was okay it I started talking with this guy, she said yes, and we started talking and now we’re dating. The thing is, whenever we’re not sober she keeps on bringing it up. Saying it’s weird that I’m dating him, bringing up how she tried to DM him and he didn’t respond, and even bringing up how i’m a homie hopper. (I had a short situationship with someone in that friend group, we’re now friends and he’s completely fine with me and my boyfriend). We go to a really small school, and I’m only allowed to date people within my religion (strict parents), so there aren’t many options so I don’t think it’s that weird that there’s a little overlap. These comments only began right after my boyfriend and I became official. I really don’t know what to do, because I love my best friend so much but I also am starting to fall in love with my boyfriend and I don’t want to have to choose. submitted by /u/that_humanoid_thing
Originally posted by u/that_humanoid_thing on r/AskGirls