NOT INCLUDING times when it’s really easy, like when you’re laying in bed together cuddling before sleeping or in the morning. I mean like at random times during the day or evening. I’m (39F) asking because my partner (43M) thinks sex should just happen and has something against verbally asking if I want to have sex or be intimate or if I’m open to it or whatever. I feel like we’re really limiting ourselves because sometimes it would be easier to just acknowledge that sex could be an option (just like asking, do you want to watch a movie?) rather than waiting for “the right moment” when we both seem to want it or having to slowly seduce each other just to let them know we’re interested. I’ve actually done the latter many times with him not understanding that I’m trying to initiate sex, or he’s too distracted watching tv or something. I’m just curious if the majority of time most people are initiating with words rather than action, or if it’s the other way around or equal. submitted by /u/username142529
Originally posted by u/username142529 on r/AskMen