I (F25) have a history of downplaying a guy’s interest in me due to low self-esteem so I wanna ask for insights this time hahaha For context, I transferred to a new gym for about a week now. When I went in earlier today, this guy immediately caught my attention cuz he’s tall and I liked that he’s kinda huge and muscular. I’m also tall so I like someone who can prolly carry me lol. So these are what I noticed: -Whenever I would rest at the gym’s balcony, he would also go out there and stand a few feet away from me, even though the whole balcony is at least 20 feet long. He would ask me questions, how long I’ve been going there, my usual sched, what program I was doing, how I knew my coach, etc. It’s not one continuous discussion. Just every time I would go out there, he would eventually follow till I went back in to do my set -Whenever he would pass me by, he would walk unnecessarily close even though there’s so much space -When my coach watched my set, he would approach my coach and talk to him abt random stuff -At the times I looked at him, I would catch him already looking at me or my direction at least -When he’s about to leave, he walked past me, stopped, then looked back at me. He gave me a fist bump lol and that cute, timid smile. I also observed that aside from me, he was only talking to the other guys at the gym. So there, I DONT WANNA ASSUME but i don’t wanna miss an opportunity as well. So men of reddit, is he’s at the very least interested in me or he’s just really friendly? Also, how do you act around a stranger you’re interested in? submitted by /u/roseemilykoll
Originally posted by u/roseemilykoll on r/AskMen
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