Original Reddit post

I’m in college and I’ve never kissed a girl. But I’ve gotten very friendly with this girl and so I know that I’ll be kissing her soon. Actually kissing her isn’t what I’m wondering about. What I want to know is what do I do with my hands? My first thought was to put my hands on her face (like under her ears I guess?) but that kinda seems like the thing for the girl to do? idk. But then I thought I should put them on her waist/hips because that’s where you put your hand when slow dancing with a girl. But then I thought that might be too close to her ass and make her uncomfortable. So would like shoulders/arms be a good compromise? I know I’m definitely overthinking this, but some clarity would be appreciated. Also, feel free to share anything you think I should know before going into my first TLDR: what do I do with my hands when kissing a girl? submitted by /u/SneakySalamander314

Originally posted by u/SneakySalamander314 on r/AskMen