(21M) No, i dont go seeking girls at all. But i do come across one every now and then, theres a girl I met that is cute and seems cool. Im thinking about shooting my shot but im also thinking if thats the smart move. I work part time, im in college still, I workout but am not where I want to be yet. Part of me thinks its smarter to focus on myself and get to where I want to be before finding s women but the other part of me feels like if I dont find one now im only getting older and it will be harder. I also think it can be nice to build with someone and as long as they have the same goals and drive as me it can workout. Overall im still torn between what to do and would like some advice or men with experience deciding between the two. submitted by /u/WarProfessional9180
Originally posted by u/WarProfessional9180 on r/AskMen