I’m looking for outside opinions because I feel confused about a situation I’m in. I also never done anything like this before or ever really hooked/dated so i’m really lost… i’m (22F) started seeing a guy (22) about 2 months ago. From the beginning we both agreed we weren’t looking for a relationship and were keeping things casual. He’s been very kind texts me almost every day, buys me flowers, got me gifts for my birthday/Christmas/Valentine’s, pays when we go out, cuddles, checks on me, etc. We’ve also been having sex regularly. Butttt yesterday I saw him walking with another girl we were going opposite directions but they were laughing and grocery shopping together. He didn’t avoid me… he said hi, hugged me, the girl kinda just stood to the side and looked as i also looked at her he obviously didn’t mention her at all but moments after he texted me talking about if i wanna come over n eat cause he just bought so many bagels (i didn’t go) idk lol but it threw me off. I don’t know who she is. i wanna know but idk am i wrong since it’s not a relationship to want to know? I know we’re not exclusive, but now I feel weird about continuing things physically without clarity. I’m not sure if I’m catching feelings or just don’t want to feel like I’m one of many. should i ask him who was that but causally without trying to interrogate him? like is it reasonable to ask or am i overthinking about everything? submitted by /u/Rosemarysea-081
Originally posted by u/Rosemarysea-081 on r/AskGirls