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Have to have experience to get experience. I have sex anywhere from 1 to 3 times a year, this year at 0. The gaps between my experiences are so long that I’m embarrassed to admit sometimes I don’t even know what I’m doing and it’s like relearning every time. Apps are how I usually meet them but that’s a crapshoot. Cold approaching in real life is kinda terrifying because I’m deathly afraid of making the woman uncomfortable. I’m 31 and it seems like I’m at the point where everyone’s taken but me. I’d never even had a long term relationship before so I feel like I’m stunted and behind everyone and it’s too late to catch up. Can’t just get experience out of thin air. submitted by /u/STDthrowaway9999

Originally posted by u/STDthrowaway9999 on r/AskMen