Okay, so female here. I have met a guy who wanted to commit and be in a relationship very very quickly I think after like one or two dates claiming they were super into me and invested. I always get super scared because I feel like while it’s normal for them to show interest in me if they like me, they haven’t known well enough to claim they like all of me. I have been told that by previous guys like I like you soooo much and I want this and that and some time passes and they freak out or can’t live up to the words they said. So yeah whenever a guy tells me he wants to be with me right off the bat after one date I get scared. Also I get scared when someone says that after sex or some physical intimacy because I am not sure if they like me or the sex because they couldn’t have known me that intimately that far. Anyways rant is over, maybe I am too fearful submitted by /u/dreamycoeur
Originally posted by u/dreamycoeur on r/AskMen
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