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Lately, I’ve been noticing this in so many places now. Whether I’m at school, art gallery, bars, cafes, etc. I’ll meet men that show me direct attention, but their approach is always subtle. I don’t even pick up that they were showing interest till after the fact because they come off as cautious and beating around the bush. I just assume it was friendliness. I’ve even had men I had interactions with in person match with me later on dating apps and reveal they were interested when they saw me. I’m just wondering why that is? Idk how to even approach it because their subtle flirting makes it hard for me to read and I don’t wanna assume anything in the moment. I’m just used to men being more direct in the past. submitted by /u/Heyyy-jude

Originally posted by u/Heyyy-jude on r/AskMen