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It might be too soon to tell but the guy Iv been seeing for only a month told me he would text me today (we had a disagreement last night that upset him) and he has yet to do so. It’s now 5pm. I texted him once at 9am making sure he got home safe (he was talking about driving after we had drinks and I wanted him to uber) and again just now bec I’m worried he did not get home safe. But now I’m thinking he’s ghosting me. Too soon to tell? Sound right? I’d be utterly shocked if he did but we haven’t known each other long The argument for context: We haven’t been casually seeing eachother for 6 weeks. Talk everyday and see eachother at least once a week now that I moved to his area about 3 weeks ago. I went out with friends and kissed a guy at a bar. That’s it- nothing more happened. I told him about it the next day when he asked if I had been with anyone else. He was very upset and said if I really liked him I wouldn’t have done that. He also understands we were not together and I technically did nothing wrong but it still feels like I crossed a line to him because that day he dropped off at uni and we had just come from his bday party before the disagreement. I like him a lot. I want to be exclusive with him like a lot. He’s the first guy Iv liked in 4 years since my ex. It’s out of my hands now, but just wanted thoughts because Iv been ruminating over this all day while I should be studying submitted by /u/O-liv-tree

Originally posted by u/O-liv-tree on r/AskMen