Original Reddit post

To clarify, I’m not talking about someone who obviously rejects a woman or a one night stand that doesn’t call us back. I have quite a few male friends who complain to me about their dating life but from my perspective they make the minimal effort to pursue women they have met and the women are stunners and seem to have decent personalities. These men are in their mid 30s+ and perpetually single and not even scoring when they easily could. So Im starting to wonder if they take lack of us pursuing them as lack of interest on our part? Apart from subtle hints, should we be asking you out a second time, checking in on you all the time or if youre not really doing that, are you really not that interested? submitted by /u/ManicPixieFeather

Originally posted by u/ManicPixieFeather on r/AskMen