Hi guys! Pretty cliche and i don’t know if it’s the right forum but i had to try I’m 28 no siblings, parents that have a highly toxic marriage and stay together. No friends that are in the same city! Atleast not the one i am completely comfortable with. I have always been extra emotional to things idk why but i have been. I get quoted nice guy everywhere I go. Anyways i got out of a 8 years relationship which was somewhat mutual because there was no future, but I asked the future question and she has no clue and broke up with me. For the first time i don’t feel anything. I am not angry, I am not sad. I am just confused Professionally I am behind people, i tasted a lot of money when i was young via trading/investments it’s all gone my first girlfriend at that time. The relationship was of 3 years i was 19 washed my account after i caught her cheating and then left me After that i tried trading did decent but didn’t have motivation to continue I was in a corporate job last year i was in banking sales and couldn’t deal with it, right now i am in consulting but not making nearly enough and comparably low compared to my peers My first break up hurt me tore me but i dealt with it. There were reasons to be angry, reasons to hate This time there isn’t any Idk how to go on with my day to day operations I go the gym login to work go for walk and that’s it. Lonely, overweight and bald I don’t have the confidence or the energy to talk to people any more, no motivation to work harder and i never thought i would think like this. Never i have always thought i can control my 3 foot world around me and dbz quote here but “ There is one certainty in life. A strong man stands above and conquers all” But not anymore i don’t have the energy anymore to deal neither the motivation And being the most humorous guy in room and the guy people react of for her help, I don’t have anyone i can speak my heart to So to all the men that faced trouble how did overcome what motivates you in life when you have nothing to hold on to? submitted by /u/fin_break
Originally posted by u/fin_break on r/AskMen
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