I’m 23M and my girlfriend 23F and I have been together for a while. When she didn’t have a job and was barely getting by, I helped her financially and supported her however I could. She eventually got a work-from-home job, which I was genuinely happy about. I even paid to get WiFi installed at her place and continue paying to keep it active so she can actually do the job. Recently, though, she started saying that I “don’t do anything for her.” That honestly caught me off guard because I feel like I’ve supported her a lot, especially during a time when she really needed it. I’m not bringing up what I’ve done to hold it over her head, but hearing her say I do nothing makes me feel like none of it mattered. How would you handle this? Would you try to have a serious conversation about it, or would you take it as a sign that the relationship has become one-sided? submitted by /u/Independent-Big-3216
Originally posted by u/Independent-Big-3216 on r/AskMen