We’ve only been together 6 months but he’s been through a lot the last few years and it seems to have just hit him. So far, I’ve let him know that he can just exist beside me and I don’t need anything from him, trying to cook him healthy meals when I’m with him and make him healthy snacks, listened, encouraged therapy but backed off when he’s said he’s not ready and doesn’t see how it would help. He‘s barely leaving his house, still working and seeing me a couple of times a week. Not getting hair cuts or really taking care if himself, not getting outside or exercising. i know everyone is different but I’m unsure If being too gentle is enabling. At the same time, I’m mindful not to be his rescuer or therapist. Thank you submitted by /u/Weary_Comparison_928
Originally posted by u/Weary_Comparison_928 on r/AskMen
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