I’m not an avoidant, but whenever a girl shows too much interest within the first few dates, it’s like it ruins it for me. it removes all the tension and flirty energy and replaces it with pressure and expectations. Idk if it’s a problem I should fix or if it’s normal submitted by /u/Both-Ad-8463
Originally posted by u/Both-Ad-8463 on r/AskMen
From your reddit post:
I was dating a girl like this and I was attracted to her, but it just felt uncomfortable. I didn’t have a problem with her asking me out but she would try and post me on her story (first date), tell me to put my arm around her, trauma dump, and tell the guys who would hit on her that she had a boyfriend by sending them a photo of us together.
Yeah, this is weird behavior, and I’d be wary of this girl. She led the interaction by asking you out, and then proceeds to put you right into the boyfriend role immediately. It’s almost as if you didn’t have a choice. This is a pretty big red flag. Would you just pick someone up and put them into the role of your girlfriend without knowing anything about them? That’s a bit crazy.