So my wife (7 years married, together 16) has an ex that is a family friend and her brothers best friend. He is always at family functions like thanksgiving and Christmas which I understand and have come to accept. My wife and I have an understanding that we don’t communicate with our exes. This ex being in her life has caused us many issues in the past causing us to break up for a year, 15 years ago. Well, I found out her family members have been having separate group texts with her and him where they have been communicating and not including me. When I found out I told her that is very disrespectful from her and her family however she is not doing anything about it. If the roles were reversed, she would be livid about it. I would also not allow my family to do that and set them straight. Am I off base here? What are other guys thoughts about this situation? submitted by /u/OldManBJJ1
Originally posted by u/OldManBJJ1 on r/AskMen