Original Reddit post

I’m in my late 20s and I am a woman who is involved in an active community with many young adults some single some not. Connecting with women is obviously simple, you chat, connect, ask for numbers or socials, start going out for coffee or boba have laughs etc. however, I get confused when I want to have male friends at this age. If something I see reminds me of him can I text him? Or is that considered a waste of time to most men? Many of my male friends (in person) have expressed that they are actively looking for relationships. So if I intend to connect with them outside of the community is that flirting? If I want male friends is the only way to bond in person by having fun? I’d just like some genuine opinions on the matter. 😊 submitted by /u/M4emily

Originally posted by u/M4emily on r/AskMen