Well for starters I’m a 20yr old College student and I’m really not happy with my life. Don’t get it wrong I’m not depressed in any sense but there’s is no appeal I find in my life, I feel like I’m doing everything to make the other person happy but not what makes me happy. I’m studying this course I don’t even like or find interest just to make my parents happy and probably end up slaving in some dudes company. Thats a scary thing if you ask me because i believe theres more to life than slaving a 9-5 job until im 60 and having a wife who probably fell out of love with me many years back and pretending like we still love each other and gaslighting myself into thinking the best years of my life are after retirement. At the same i understand you need to survive and pay bills but all of that just to still die miserable. Rather wake up everyday of my life doing something I know why im doing it and being happy with that choice I made… My question to the Men is how did you escape this part of life or how can i know what to do submitted by /u/eastman3000
Originally posted by u/eastman3000 on r/AskMen
