Do you lot enjoy fooling around for extended periods of time or is it more of a chore you need to get done so you can get yours? I am a woman and it can take a little while for me to finish. I had an ex who did not appreciate it and regularly told me that it was annoying to get me off, but I’m trying to gauge if this was one person’s bad reaction or if most men would have an issue with it. Now that I am dating again, I get very stressed when a partner wants to please me. I know they feel bad if they don’t get me off, but I can’t really get there that immediately and I guess I wonder what the best solution is, because if someone’s going to be angry with me after I finish because I was too slow I’d rather them not even bother to try. Curious what you would prefer in this situation! Would you rather a woman tell you that she’s not going to finish in a timely manner and that you can stop? Or do you enjoy the experience of fooling around with her enough that it can be enjoyable? submitted by /u/Parking_Departure_22
Originally posted by u/Parking_Departure_22 on r/AskMen
