Like the title says, I have an issue with finishing too quickly during sex. Like I always make sure girl I’m with finishes also, but for a long time I’ve been hearing from friends that they can make their partner finish from penetrative sex and I’ve always was kind of jealous? I don’t know, this is the area I am actually struggling. When I had a long term partner, sex got better, but I have a phase where I have a lot of ons or shorter flings and while I don’t have a problem getting a girl into bed, I always think that in the end my performance is quite dissapointing. I looked up advice on how to last longer in bed, and besides the “ol’ reliable” imagine your grandma naked, I stumbled into some tantra bs, which was honestly just too esoteric for me. But before you ask, I tried some of the shit, but felt ridiculous. I read on reddit that one of the worst things a guy can do is be sloppy with rythm, like set the pace and not follow through, because he undoes all the buildup towards orgasm he has built and women hate that. So I try to maintain the pace, but in that case I can’t last too long and I don’t want to stop. The actual piece of advice that stuck with me is that you shouldn’t worry about finishing fast, but when you do, just don’t stop with the intercourse all together, switch to eating her out, then after you are good to go continue until you are both satisfied. This intrigues me, because it’s something I could do. What are your thoughts on that? TLDR: Is the key to longer intercourse just switching from penetration to cunnulingus, some other way of satisfying and then switch back? submitted by /u/Dvejndvejn
Originally posted by u/Dvejndvejn on r/AskMen