im struggling to move on after being cheated on, and honestly, I don’t know how you guys deal with this part of it. The hardest thing for me isn’t even just the cheating itself. It’s the constant arguments I’m having with her in my head. I keep asking her in my head: “was any of it real? you met my mom you talked about getting married last day we met you did this you did that and you changed after two days”. i keep on replaying everything and trying to figure out when it became fake, or whether I completely misread the person I was with. that’s what messes with my head the most not knowing whether I should remember the good moments as genuine or look back at all of them and think,”was she just pretending “ how to actually get past this?? submitted by /u/onwaytotheropeXx
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