((I’ll name one)) How important physical attraction is for us. No, it’s not everything. No, not every girl must be a “10”. No, not every girl is attractive in precisely the same way. No, people don’t deserve to be sexualized, objectified, dehumanized. . . .and yet, there is absolutely NOTHING nefarious about men’s incredible attraction to pretty women (whatever “pretty” means to him). It doesn’t matter that it may not be as important to women as it is to men. We don’t shame people for desiring non-physical traits and, to be fair, we don’t shame women for ANY traits they seek out in men - especially physical traits (height, muscularity, “size”, hair [scalp and/or facial], etc. Men need to stop self-loathing / self-demonizing based on their natural desire for physically attractive women. What other things do you think men should stop apologizing for? submitted by /u/THEbeautifuLIE
Originally posted by u/THEbeautifuLIE on r/AskMen
