ETA: he is interested in her enjoying it, he just genuinely doesn’t know what to do. Hi! I have a friend who got married last month, and she’s been asking for advice about their sex life. Her (30F) and her husband (25M) were both virgins prior to marriage. Neither had even masturbated prior to getting married, so they’re both having to learn about not only one another’s bodies, but also their own. She’s confided that there is like no foreplay. They refuse to perform oral on one another. Her main complaint is pain (which is understandable if you’re not turned on). I’ve given her the typical advice (foreplay foreplay Our friend group demonstrated different positions to try besides missionary, and we bought her a vibrator (with her permission of course). I guess I’m looking for advice that we could possibly add to what we have already told her and suggested. What advice would you give her? submitted by /u/Unlucky_Hamster_952
Originally posted by u/Unlucky_Hamster_952 on r/AskMen
