Genuine question, even though I know it sounds harsh. Sex is a huge part of life for me and something I enjoy a lot, so I have a hard time understanding how someone gets to the point where their weight physically prevents or severely limits having sex without that becoming a massive wake-up call. I understand gaining weight gradually, struggling with motivation, food addiction, depression, medical issues, etc. What I’m trying to understand is the point where basic things you really enjoy become physically difficult or impossible. For people who have actually been there, what was going through your head at the time? Did you recognize how much your weight was limiting you, or does it happen gradually enough that there’s never really one obvious “what the fuck am I doing?” moment. submitted by /u/Winter_Variation2660
Originally posted by u/Winter_Variation2660 on r/AskMen