I am a (almost) 31 year old woman but i wanted se perspective from males in the age range i date (27-35). I dress like those goth/rock/punk chicks you would see in old school cartooms (ex: sam manson from danny phantom and the hex girls from scooby doo)…though i do have a few “elegant” dresses stashed away in my closet for more formal events like weddings, black tye dinners, ans et.cetra. I have also recently bought a few business causal outfits and a wig to hide my green highlights because I am trying to build a career in childcare/education and want to be taken seriously whenever i go to interviews. My free time is usually spent with friends, gaming, watching anime or movies, reading (both novels and superhero comics). And i am also a sucker for collecting hello kitty merch whenever i have a little extra money to spare. when I go out, I like going to barcades, the mall, the cinema, karoke nights, nerd conventions, or to a nice diner. I even have no problem approaching men. In fact, most of the relationships I have been in have been iniated by me. However i notice that 70% of the time i am try dating, the guys I show interest in tend to see me more of a friend rather than someone they might date. And that is find…but at some point you gotta ask yourself what you are doing wrong. I sometimes wonder between my interests and my wardrobe choices I am just seen as too “masculine”? Or maybe i am.just too awkward and bad at flirting? Idk…can you yall lend a girl a hand? submitted by /u/Groundbreaking-Sun68
Originally posted by u/Groundbreaking-Sun68 on r/AskMen