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Hello. As the title states I want to be able to make a connection with the people I meet. At times I meet people at events and have a good time and thats it, I dont ever get invited to events and always have to work or reach out and not the other way around. I want to learn to be able to connect with people and want to be wanted or seen. I also have low self esteem to a point where I get imposter syndrome from hanging out with people and convince myself they aren’t interested in me and not being included in events enhances this dilemma. When I interact with people I ask questions and show genuine interest in what they do, I just feel like no matter what I do I cant find someone or a group that makes me feel included, I always feel like im trying to squeeze myself into someone’s circle. I want to ask, is there something that I should be doing? submitted by /u/yosman88

Originally posted by u/yosman88 on r/AskMen