Original Reddit post

Hey everyone! Have you ever dated someone who’s just ridiculously calm? The kind of person who never seems to lose their temper, doesn’t get worked up over stupid things, and stays cool even when everything around them is falling apart? I’ve met someone like this, and honestly, I’m fascinated by how she handles things. Even when someone disrespects her or something goes wrong, she just doesn’t seem to let it get to her. It’s like nothing can ruin her peace. She’s in a leadership position, and I’ve never seen her lose her temper, get visibly frustrated, or let other people’s behavior get to her. When I asked her how she manages to stay so calm, she told me that it’s practically impossible to make her angry and that nobody has really managed to do so. According to her, that’s simply how she is. Everybody’s saying her bf must be really lucky with her. It got me wondering what it’s actually like to be in a relationship with someone like that. Does having such a calm partner make your relationship more peaceful, or can it sometimes be frustrating when they’re almost impossible to upset? I’d love to hear your experiences! Are people like this naturally wired that way, or is it something they’ve learned over time? submitted by /u/Ready-Isopod-1332

Originally posted by u/Ready-Isopod-1332 on r/AskMen