I recently started a new job and one of the first people I met around my age at the job I found to be kind of cute. We share similar lunch times and so we see each other at lunch and have started to chat here and there. Originally he’d sit at the table in front of me while we chat a bit and we’d just talk that way and then eat eventually. (Am 26 f and so is he) But a couple times now he’s been coming to sit at the table I’m at and eating lunch with me / chatting. He seems cute so I was fine with it and he seemed very sweet. He even said he’d come by to say hi while I was doing a training class at work, and seeing as he’d come to sit with me and not me asking him to, it gave off the impression he doesn’t have a girlfriend and he never mentioned one. I spilled a big amount of sauce and he helped me and cleaned it up too which I get is a nice thing but he didn’t have to. Today We had a good conversation and he gave me his lunchbox to put my food in which was very nice that he offered because I have a foot injury. He even said my nails look cute. But upon finding out he has a girlfriend today which he mentioned when we were talking about traveling and plans, he only mentioned a bit about her but I don’t feel great that he’s being this sweet to me while having a girlfriend and also complimenting my nails feels wrong. What do you all think? It’s unfortunate because he seems really sweet and kind and we’ve been laughing a lot when we chat at work but it does feel wrong and I feel a bit weird he didn’t mention having a partner until now. He gave me his phone to look at his photos from a recent trip and I didn’t see a partner there either but I guess he could’ve gone with a friend. submitted by /u/Mission_Remote_6319
Originally posted by u/Mission_Remote_6319 on r/AskGirls