I’ve been married 2 years and I’m just having issues with women’s attention. I’m not saying I’m super attractive but tbh I’ve noticed a lot of women’s attention this past months. I can deal with it when I don’t see the person more than once, like in the super market but I’ve had a lot of women’s attention at the gym or outside my place of work. I had already rejected women’s attention at the gym. There was this person that said hi to me like 4_5 times waiting for me to talk to her? She got mad when I didn’t and never talked to me again but there are others that keep on trying to grab my attention. There’s one girl that’s super hot and has been trying to say hi to me numerous times. I smoke weed before going to the gym so I don’t interact much with people (I run away from temptation) but yesterday our leg workout matched and it was impossible to ignore her. Honestly, I don’t feel that attractive but women’s attention is making me think otherwise. Help? Edit: hey guys. I feel like I wanted it to come out so let me see if I can clear up the air. First of all, and I think it can put things into context, I love in Mexico, in a very thight neighborhood. As you can see, English is not my first language. I opened a small business (I opened up a small pharmacy)in the main street of this neighborhood. I’m very antisocial I prefer to not speak with anyone but due to having this business open I have to “give customer service”? Ay least say buen día, buena tarde, buena noche and nod most people that walk by the business. I speak to no one at my gym. I go high as fuck every time with headphones and volume all the way up. Impossible for me to speak with anyone. I say hi to people that walk by my business but as soon as I get to the gym, I speak to no one. Specially the women that try to flirt with me. Here’s the thing though. Even though I don’t speak or notice anyone I’m still having this issue. The first woman that tried to flirt with me at the gym said hi to me once, I said hi back as not to be rude, she said hi a second time, I said hi back. She did it again a 3rd time. This is when I just waves without even looking at the person and this got her mad I guess? I try to keep to myself but I don’t want to be rude to people. However, I was rude to this person and I don’t want to appear that way due to not wanting to start people away from the pharmacy. Now, theres this whole other person now. Trying to catch my attention. I mostly ignore her but yesterday we had to share equipment due to both having to do legs and it was socially exhausting. She smiles at me and of course I had to smile back, I had to ask for permission to use the equipment she was using at least 2ice. When I was squatting, I could feel her stare and it was distracting. When we were sharing equipment, I would go as far as possible to give her space but she would stay right beside the equipment when I used it. This is really uncomfortable when I’m just trying to workout. So that’s my question, how do you deal with that. We haven’t had any conversation and I’m not planning to (not that I can being high and doing heavy squats). Should I when she tries to say hi? Should I just nod and keep on walking? Some of you have accused me of not telling them Im married when I haven’t even had an opportunity to share a word besides asking to share equipment. Me cansan, la neta me cansan submitted by /u/adavila1870
Originally posted by u/adavila1870 on r/AskMen
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