Lately, I am seeing situations where if guy asks to split money on first date for like gas, bowling lane, or the meal, then it is repulsive. In my mind, if a friend asked for this, I at least would consider doing it because if that would be helpful I want to help my friend. But on dates, why are the girls repulsed by this? Even in relationships couples share expenses, so why asking for this is suddenly weird or repulsive? Curious about how this men pay for everything on dates comes up for you. Including in non straight dating, does it come up? Does it bother you? You prefer it that way? Even if this happened on dates, did you find with same girl in relationship she was more willing to share the expenses load? submitted by /u/RhubarbBusy7122
Originally posted by u/RhubarbBusy7122 on r/AskMen
