I will try to describe my situation in short. I have a gf since last yr but she got cancer and well due to that we talked less because she was always busy in treatments. i was always supportive and tried to make her feel better and stayed with her whenever i could. she is fine now but it’s just gotten too quiet atp. if i text her, she replies days later. i haven’t even been able to talk to her for months. many times she went missing making me believe that something happened and that she is no more due to which i have mourned her more than once atp. Ok so in the periods where i thought she was gone and i had gotten a bit over it, i tried to talk to other girls. one i got close to, we joked around and stuff. but then she suddenly went quiet and said she doesn’t want to be friends anymore by giving some random reason. then a month ago, i got approached by a 3rd girl. we vibed well and were good friends. she was busy many times so i tried to not pressure her into talking. but then well i did a small mistake and she left. i apologised but she left. and my first gf(tbh i won’t even call her gf anymore cuz the relationship is basically non existent rn) now i am saying that i am also at fault here, i accept that but for some reason i just seem to have it extra hard. like what am i doing wrong? is it all my fault? submitted by /u/MobilePiglet926
Originally posted by u/MobilePiglet926 on r/AskGirls
