We have been together for 3 years. He’s 25M and I’m 26F, I used to love sex, I was wild, slept with a bunch of people and really had a lot of fun experimenting (not asking for judgement on that, it was a good part of my 20’s) however he’s only had sex with 4 other people and every time I’ve tried to bring up using toys, more foreplay, fingering, doing things differently etc, it feels like he gets offended and he says he’d rather just make me orgasm by himself but I’m extremely bored of our sex, I have been for years and I feel like nothing I say to him about it really goes anywhere. What can I say/do to make it more fun? Our sex is extremely predictable and boring and it has me going 4-6 weeks in between because I don’t want it which is incredibly weird for me as I love it and would prefer it daily/multiple times a day. Are we just not compatible? can this change? Hoping for male opinions if you were in his shoes. submitted by /u/Least-Donkey-861
Originally posted by u/Least-Donkey-861 on r/AskMen
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