So basically I’ve been burned way too many times in relationships and have basically lost that “loverboy” thing in me, like I was so full of love, especially for relationships but I’ve become this judgemental guy who is starting to have trust issues. Most recently, I was extremely judgemental and found out abt that she was 2 timing me with her boyfriend. It wasn’t a long relationship but that was the last part basically. I hate the guy I’m becoming, I used to trust people a lot but it’s slowly been rotting away from me. It wasn’t that last relationship that caused this, just that it was the last straw. I really don’t want to be a grumpy old man when that age arrives. Might be corny but I used to dream abt a good married life with my wife, obviously people have problems and all that in any relationship, but at the end of the day that shouldn’t be the end it all you know. I’m in my early 20s and I’ve seen so many unrealistic social media expectations (I’m sure I might be a victim of that as well) but why does it feel like no one wants to work on a relationship? submitted by /u/Prof_XdR
Originally posted by u/Prof_XdR on r/AskMen