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I asked a guy out and he wanted to say yes. He paused and said no. He explained what he was doing in great detail. It was clear he wanted to keep his plans as is. I acknowledge that they sound amazing and something he was looking forward to doing. When I shared that and other details, my girlfriends said it was good. Like he got to say no and you weren’t upset. I thought it was good because I was ok with him having plans with his friends. It left me curious what other men looked for and appreciated in women that were green flags. submitted by /u/Budget-Noise5477

Originally posted by u/Budget-Noise5477 on r/AskMen